“Dr H’ng, thank you very much! I did not expect my wife can be pregnant so fast! If I know this early, I should just come to find you rather than go to try the IVF.”
Last week I met Mr. Tan, and he thanks repeatedly to me, Mrs. Tan now only 28 years old, but want to conceive naturally is very difficult to her! Before they come to see me, she had done 2 times IUI and IVF, and had experiencing 1 blighted ovum and 1 embryo abortion. And she also had polycystic ovary syndrome and tubal occlusion. For her, if she wants to get pregnant, she only can wait for the miracle happen. She chose to recuperate her body in order to keep her body in health condition, keep the last chance to get pregnant, even next time she go to try IVF again, she will not suffer many side effects.
2 times of IVF success, but both miscarriages
Mrs. Tan, 23 year-old to get married, is one of the patients with serious polycystic ovary syndrome, menstrual cycle come 2-3 times a year only, until 2013, she need to rely on drugs to reminders by menstruation. After married two years, she had done a laparoscopic surgical removal of ovarian cyst; also identified her tubal occlusion problems. After the surgery to clear the fallopian tubes, she tried two times of IUI, but the result is fail.
A year ago, she chose to do the IVF, and both are success. Unfortunately, first IVF diagnosed as the blighted ovum, the second IVF success but in 7th week, the baby still have no sign of a heartbeat, she has no choice, have to do the abortion.
Two times trial of IVF but those 2 babies left her away, make her felt very sad and she decides not to use the remaining four frozen embryos. She knows that, if her body does not change, then the result obtained is the same. Last August they come to see me, her husband, Mr Tan is a busy man, every time when he comes to see me, his phones rang non-stop, but he is definitely a nice man, every time when he finish listening to every phone call, he will sit patiently and listen to my attentively analysis of both the couple problems.
Unbelievable that, Mrs Tan still can pregnant naturally, maybe this is because she is under a no stress environment conditions; she can absorb the nutrition easily, and recuperate her body until five months, she get pregnant. I also feel shocked when I heard that Mrs. Tan can get pregnant within 5 months after treatment
“Dr H’ng, when can I be pregnant?”
Each pair of couples comes to see me, I will analyse the problems they faced detailed and comprehensive. But when the couple asked me: “Dr H’ng, when I could be pregnant?” This question I cannot give them an answer because to pregnant naturally, I just can help them to recuperate the body condition until achieve to the state that able to get pregnant naturally. I also will guide them on how to accurately grasp the ovulation period, but the effects of stress on fertility are invisible accounted for a lot of factors.
Mrs Tan is facing more serious and complex problems than other many couples, but she faster than other many couples to achieve pregnancy. There was another couple, wife’s body temperature is very good, but each time the temperature is maintained after ovulation fell by 16 and 17 days, then the menstruation came. With the decline in body temperature, her mood also fell. Just one time during a trip, with the pressureless environment, she finally successful get pregnant.
Mother-to-be facing life stress, work pressure, pressure to have children, it is impossible live without pressure. I always remind them, the most important is to have a good understanding about self-body condition, solve the problems via recuperate the body; once all the body state reach to the ideal level, then the baby will come to you quietly.