Mrs. Ling born a first baby after 2 months of marriage, she feel that getting pregnant not that difficult. One and half year later, she plans to birth second baby. However, second baby not that easy like what she thinks before. Another 9 years passed, she still failed to get pregnant. They go to hospital to have several checking, the doctor recommend them to try test-tube baby. But this is impossible because they cannot afford to pay for the cost. At last, they choose to do IUI, but still failed to get pregnant at the end.
My wife hopes to give my son a sibling
After experienced two times failure of IUI, Mrs. Ling already 36 years old and they come to find me. Mrs. Ling is an introverted and poor comprehension person. I can sense that Mr. Ling feel impatient to her wife during the conversation, but Mrs. Ling still keep her smiling face to her husband. When I saw that, I ask Mr. Ling whether he pressuring Mrs. Ling to birth baby. Mr. Ling denied it and said that, his wife hopes to give his son a sister or brother.
From the Mr. Ling’s semen analysis report, the amounts of semen have 26mil/ml, but that semen was not very active, motility rate just 20%; Mrs. Ling has facing menstrual irregular 4 years ago until now, her menstrual period is about 35 to 50 days, low amount of menstrual volume, and also facing Polycystic Ovarian Disease. Due to several factors, Mrs. Ling cannot predict accurately when the ovulatory period is, and causing their pregnant plan delay and delay again.
After 2 treatments to Mr. Ling, his semen amount increase till 60mil/ml, motility rate increase until 75%. All of this improvement is contribution of Mrs. Ling to prepare the medicine and serve her husband very well. I tell Mr. Ling that don’t let Mrs. Ling working hard alone, should give her some support, encourage her and take good care to her.
After 10 years, finally the second baby born
They inform me the good news when the treatments enter into 8th session, they waiting for this second baby for 10 years. This baby will give birth in next year February, and is a daughter. Mrs. Ling tell me that she finally can be “full-time mama”, stay at home just to take care of children. I feel very happy and admire her courage, because most of the couples, they will not purposely put so much effort to get pregnant when they have a child, but when Mrs. Ling comes to find me, her son already 9 years old, she still put in so much effort to birth baby, just hopes that her son can have a sibling.